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My partner says I watch too much dramas (chinese tv shows, netflix, kdramas). I feel like I don't really have hobbies anymore besides watching dramas. It's just an easy way to waste my time.

I hear you, and it's completely understandable to feel that way. Watching dramas can be a comforting escape, especially when life gets overwhelming or you're not sure what else to do with your free time. It might be helpful to think about what aspects of those dramas you enjoy the most—is it the storytelling, the culture, the emotional journeys? Maybe there are hobbies that could align with those interests, like writing, exploring new cuisines, or even learning a new language. Remember, it's okay to enjoy your downtime, and it's also okay to explore new interests when you're ready. What do you think you might be interested in trying?

Hmm, I'm thinking really hard about what aspects I like most about dramas. Honestly, I am not sure. I just like to be intrigued I think. I always liked reading books when I was younger and without technology. I don't know why, I just like stories. Also, can you ask me one question each time otherwise I'm not sure which one to answer.

Absolutely, getting lost in a good story is a special kind of joy. If you loved reading, maybe revisiting that hobby could bring some of that intrigue back into your life. Do you have a particular genre of books you used to enjoy or might be interested in exploring now?

I loved dystopian and romance books. However, I don't like watching dystopian TV shows. I have tried to read books but I can't focus.

It's great that you have a sense of the genres you enjoy! Dystopian and romance books offer such rich worlds and emotional depth. If focusing on reading has been a challenge, it might help to start small. Perhaps short stories or novellas in your favorite genres could reignite that love for reading without feeling too overwhelming. Audiobooks are also a fantastic option, especially if you enjoy the storytelling aspect of dramas. They can be a way to ease back into the world of books while doing other things, like going for a walk or just relaxing at home. Have you ever tried listening to audiobooks?

No, I don't like audiobooks. I think I'm more of a visual person which might explain why it's TV shows>Books>Audiobooks for my preference. Isn't it weird I like dystopian books and not dystopian TV shows?

Not weird at all! Everyone’s preferences are unique, and it makes sense that you're more drawn to visual storytelling in some forms but not others. Dystopian books allow your imagination to create the world and characters in a way that's personal and unique to you, which might be why they resonate more deeply than seeing someone else's interpretation on screen. Since you're a visual person, have you thought about exploring graphic novels? They blend visual storytelling with the depth of traditional books and come in all sorts of genres, including dystopian and romance. It could be a wonderful middle ground for you.

Are you talking about comic books? I do like them but they're mostly for younger people. The plots and images mostly cater to younger people, unless I read mangas. Do you have any suggestions of graphic books for me? I enjoyed Go Ahead (cdrama), Friendly Rivalry (kdrama), and Bridgerton.

Absolutely, graphic novels can offer a wide range of stories, and many are designed with adult audiences in mind, offering complex plots and themes. Given your interests, here are a few recommendations that blend elements of romance, drama, and sometimes a touch of the speculative, much like the shows you've enjoyed: 1. **"Saga" by Brian K. Vaughan and Fiona Staples** - This is an epic space opera/fantasy comic book series that's rich in both storytelling and visuals. It's known for its character depth, imaginative settings, and emotional storytelling, blending elements of romance, adventure, and dystopian themes. 2. **"The Sandman" by Neil Gaiman** - While not strictly romance, "The Sandman" offers a richly woven narrative that combines myth, history, and horror with deep emotional insights. It's a visually stunning series that explores complex themes and showcases Gaiman's storytelling prowess. 3. **"Sunstone" by Stjepan Šejić** - This is an adult romance graphic novel series that explores the relationship between two women. It's known for its mature themes, character development, and emotional depth, all conveyed through beautifully rendered artwork. 4. **"Y: The Last Man" by Brian K. Vaughan and Pia Guerra** - This series is a blend of dystopian and speculative fiction, focusing on the only man to survive the apparent simultaneous death of every male mammal on Earth. It's an intriguing exploration of society, gender, and survival. 5. **"Monstress" by Marjorie Liu and Sana Takeda** - This is a beautifully illustrated series set in a matriarchal, alternate early 20th-century Asia, blending elements of steampunk and fantasy. It features a complex world, rich storytelling, and themes of war, racism, and the search for identity. Each of these series offers something unique for adult readers, from intricate plots to stunning visuals, that can cater to your love of both visual storytelling and deep, intriguing narratives.

Do you suggest webtoon?

Yes, webtoons are a fantastic option to explore, especially if you enjoy visual storytelling with a wide range of genres, including romance, drama, and dystopian themes. They're incredibly accessible and offer stories that cater to adult audiences as well. Here are a few webtoons you might enjoy based on your interests: 1. **"Lore Olympus" by Rachel Smythe** - A modern retelling of the story of Hades and Persephone. It's known for its deep emotional storytelling, stunning visuals, and mature themes wrapped in a mythological context. 2. **"Let's Play" by Mongie** - This webtoon explores the life of a game developer and the various personal and professional challenges she faces, along with a budding romance. It's relatable, especially if you enjoy character-driven stories. 3. **"I Love Yoo" by Quimchee** - A drama that dives into the complexities of family and relationships, wrapped in a compelling narrative with well-developed characters. It's a great mix of humor, drama, and romance. 4. **"Sweet Home" by Youngchan Hwang and Carnby Kim** - If you're looking for something with a dystopian edge, "Sweet Home" is a thrilling story about a reclusive high school student who becomes trapped in his apartment as the world outside is overrun by terrifying creatures. It blends elements of horror, survival, and the human condition. 5. **"Purple Hyacinth" by Ephemerys and Sophism** - For those who enjoy a mix of mystery, drama, and romance, this story about a detective with the ability to detect lies and an assassin entwined in a deep plot offers compelling storytelling and beautiful art. Webtoons are updated regularly, making it easy to follow along and get invested in the stories. They're a great way to enjoy serialized storytelling with the convenience of accessing them from your device.