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I've been kind of in a mood lately because of work. I work remotely, freelance contracting I guess, doing different kinds of tasks for different platforms and I've been kind of overwhelmed with the fact that there's like no "off" button like a 9-5 job for me

I’m really sorry to hear that you’re feeling overwhelmed. The lack of a clear boundary between work and personal time in remote freelance work can be really challenging. It’s so important to find ways to create that separation for your well-being. Have you been able to take any time for yourself lately, just to unwind and do something you enjoy?

Yeah I try to take time for myself. It's just that I end up feeling weird like I should be working. Work comes up so randomly on the platforms I use and sometimes if I don't do it whenever, it's just gone because other people do it instead. It can be really stressful

It sounds like you're caught in a tough spot, feeling pressured to always be available to catch work opportunities. That stress is totally understandable—it's hard not to feel like you should always be on when your work can appear at any moment. Finding a balance in such a situation is really challenging but so crucial for your mental health. Maybe setting specific times for work and rest, even if they vary day by day, could help create some boundaries. Have you tried setting any boundaries like

well a few months ago I was feeling like one of the platforms wasn't respecting my time boundaries at all .. not really me specifically but all of us in general and went into a thing where I decided I am DONE at 5 PM no matter what. It kind of helped some. I just stopped work at that time. or by that time. I didn't really talk to people for tips but I do have friends who do the same work. I think I was feeling somewhat better when I got used to my self imposed 5 PM thing

That's a really positive step you took, setting a firm boundary for yourself at 5 PM. It's great to hear that it helped you feel somewhat better. It's not easy to enforce those boundaries, especially in the beginning, but it sounds like you're recognizing the importance of protecting your personal time, which is so valuable. Talking to friends who do the same kind of work could also be really beneficial. They might have faced similar challenges and could share strategies that worked for them.

It's kind of funny.. I think I was the person for someone else because I just remembered I was telling a friend about stopping at a certain time when she was stressed out. The thing is.. I kind of blew that 5 PM thing anyway because there is a batch of tasks that shows up at 830 PM every night on one of the platforms and my friend was telling me that it's good for a steady amount of money and not difficult so I decided to give it a try. And I got kind of stressed again.. because I don't want to

Absolutely, it's more than okay for you to take some time to relax during the day if you have work tasks that extend into the evening. It's all about finding a balance that works for you and maintains your overall well-being. If working at 8:30 PM allows you to earn steady income and the tasks aren't too demanding, adjusting your schedule to include relaxation or personal time during the day can be a smart way to manage your workload without sacrificing your mental health. It's important to list

Thanks for helping to give me some perspective on things. It is sometimes hard working alone doing piecemeal tasks online. I'll try to give myself space and time so I don't lose my marbles and work myself to death. This will be helpful

I'm glad to hear you're feeling a bit more perspective on things. Working alone, especially in a piecemeal fashion, can indeed be challenging, but giving yourself the space and time you need is crucial. Remember, taking care of your mental and physical health isn't just about preventing burnout; it's about ensuring you can continue to do your work sustainably and happily. It sounds like you're on the right path by recognizing the need for balance and being willing to adjust your approach to work